heya bubs!!! so my child support (my only source of income rn) is going to stop on the 14th and i haven’t have much traffic recently w my banggood affiliate program (i make $$ off of ppl’s purchases!) so it would help me a ton if u reblogged one or two of them and maybe told ur friends too as well!! i can reblog one of ur posts or give u a promo to 13.8k!!! ty!
hey so ive applied to at least seven places so far so now im doing the waiting game and calling to check my apps, etc. so in the meantime, i rly need money since banggood is my only source of income still! i, now have 14.3k and im still offering promos n whatnot !!
Just found this on Twitter. It’s a list of free counseling and support services in the Orlando area. Please use these resources if you’re feeling vulnerable and need someone to talk to, and please spread the word about this! We want as many people as possible to be able to access care!
hey guys, my time is slowly thinning, and I have been working many under-table jobs as my parents do not currently allow me to be employed, to keep me from gaining independence.
long story short: i love my partner (and best friend of 6 years) and want to be with them. coming out is not an option because it almost happened and ended poorly.
we plan on escaping soon but it’s hard. my parents have been more and more scary about getting married and the boy they have picked for me is THE WORST.
and i’m tired. we’re tired!!!!
and i just want to be with my love!! the best most honest love of my life.
if every one of my followers donates $00.50 (USD) we would have enough to start.
READ THIS. It was posted on FB today, then someone commented on it and said their 19year old son even got one in the mail TODAY.
If you live in Sacramento read this and protect your selves as well as friends, family, and peers. Huge human trafficking area!!!
Sacramento,CA. Is the #2 hotspot for human trafficking in the United States. BOOST
Oh my god. I got a letter exactly like this in Louisville, KY. The exact same wording and everything. I threw mine out because there was no letterhead or information and I thought it was just a scam but I had no idea that it was this bad. I have no idea how they found me. Please be safe out there.
I got this letter too wtf…
I got that letter too in AZ everyone be super careful.
This is also happening in San Diego!!! I received one in the mail on friday!
I live in Kansas and got this letter a few weeks ago too. Be careful everyone.
Holy shit I live in AZ I’ve got this letter like 5 times that’s scary as hell
I GOT THIS LETTER IN THE MAIL A FEW DAYS AGO IM SHAKING RIGHT NOW
Please be careful oh my God i can’t stress enough don’t fall for fake shit like this they are very apparently suspicious but they target teens who are desperate for a job PLEASE be careful holy shit
Yeah it’s fucked up. I’ve gotten two addressed to me. Everyone please be careful
Idk if this is real or not, but since so many of my followers are female, please be careful. ❤
If this is your husband, I have just endured a 2 hour train ride from Philadelphia listening to this loser and his friends brag about their multiple affairs and how their wives are too stupid to catch on. Oh, please reblog the shit out of this…
Let me tell y’all what my co worker does when her friends go on a date: She takes a picture of the person’s drivers license. She doesn’t delete it until her friend(s) return safely.
Everyone needs to be doing this!
I remember my first time picking my girlfriend up to go on a date, and I met her mom that day. She asked to see my ID to take a picture of it “just incase” I had/have good* intentions so I was cool and went along with it. 😏
Yes!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾If someone gives me a hard time about taking a picture of their license, that’s a red flag.
Girl, I take their number, license plate (w flash so there’s no debate on the car color at night) and a last seen wearing photo, smh. All my girls coming back safe or I’m on that ass.
If he doesn’t drive, send your friend the location or address of where you the date is taken place. If you change locations, screenshot where y’all at and send it to them. Stay safe.
There is an app called glympse that will broadcast your location to whomever you choose for I think I max of four hours. It’s a little gps program and as your phone moves a little beacon will move with it on a map
Adding that right now^
Safety is important. This is the first I’ve heard of the taking a pic of his license. I just realized how weird I’d probably act in this situation and apparently it’d be seen as a red flag.
ALL OF THIS👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 BOOST!
reblogs again cuz this advice is on point
Imma start making my sister do this cause nobody dates more than her
If you have an andriod you can go to Settings > System > Safety assistance > Send Help Messages > On
This feature allows you to send your location, a picture from both front facing and back cameras, and on some devices a short audio recording to your primary contacts by pressing your power button 3x when this feature is turned on
If you’ve been looking to bind, whether you’re transgender, non-binary, or a cosplayer, you’ve probably come across binders like these on Ebay, Amazon, or AliExpress. Usually they’re called E.V.A, SHO, Whatwears, or Ancient Fish King brands, all of which are apparently, interchangeable with each other. Ross is here to tell you that these chest binders are not much of a step up from ace bandages, which in case you hadn’t known already, are the worst thing you can do to bind your chest. So here’s the run down, from least bad to worst.
First off, the sellers are usually misinformed about why someone would use a chest binder is needed just from how they title them. Why would Lesbians want a chest binder (outside of cosplay?)? I don’t know, but most of these listings have lesbian in the name, suggesting that chest binders are for girls, not men or nonbinary. This right there should be a warning sign of a company that doesn’t know what they are doing.
The strapless binders’ model is wearing the wrong size for their chest. Their breast is popping out over the top of the binder, and I can personally say that with that binder, it is very, very, painful if you have a larger chest. After about 20 minutes, bruising and chaffing will occur, especially to those with larger chests or are heavier. In the worst case scenario, the breast will rip or pop as if it were cut with a knife.
Look at the materials used. These chest binders do not have any or enough stretchy material in them. Elastic or spandex is the best. On the ones that do have spandex, they don’t mention how much there is in the binder. This is an enormous, bright, flashing sign that the binder is NOT safe. Just how bad is it? Ace bandages likely have more elastic than these binders do, and the ace bandages can still kill you if they don’t maim you. A binder is supposed to stretch, be easily manipulated, and you must be able to take a full breath in them. I’ve bought and used two different types binders from Ebay not knowing any better, and I could barely take a breath at all. I did get larger and larger sizes, and with the same result. Putting it simply, their binders could be falling off of you because they are too big and still would not be safe.
Now I can’t show you in a picture about the next part, but what’s probably the worst about these binders is that their ‘binding’ material goes all the way around the binder. Your binder should NOT have this unless it is made to correct back posture. Sports bras can, but that is better for again, correcting back posture. So not only will you be binding your chest, but you’ll be binding your ribs, back, and shoulders as well. This can warp them and damage the tissue.
So what does a good binder look like? I’m going to use the binder I’ve had the best experience with as an example. The Ultimate Chest Binder Tank by underworks. I’ve bought two of these as I’ve needed them, I wore out my old one after a year and a half of use daily including at work.
So, straight off from the site, we know this seller is knowledgeable about their target audience. Chest binders are under the men’s section and you never see the word lesbian on any of them. The only thing marked for women under the chest binder section is a sports bra, put there because transgender men often use them for working out.
The information section on the binder isn’t just two or three lines, it’s a whole paragraph. What is this binder made of? Medical grade 70% nylon and 30% spandex knit. It says it right there and is readily available information, you don’t have to dig through the seller’s ads for cheap wholesale jewelry in the description to find it. The listing also tells us how much of each material is used, information you must have when buying a chest binder. My personal rule of thumb? If it’s under 20% spandex or elastic, it’s trash. Our listing also tells us how to put the binder on, rather than making you struggle to figure it out on your own. Size chart and customer reviews are readily available on the listing and not buried under ads for other unrelated merchandise.
Also from looking at the binder’s pictures, the front and back of the binder is made differently; the front is thicker and non transparent while the back can bee seen through a bit and is thin in comparison. This is because the front of the binder is made to compress and bind the chest and the back of the binder is not. All the binding is in the front, support in the back.
Please, know the difference between an unsafe binder and a safe one. Save your money and avoid ones found on ebay. Can’t afford a binder still? There are programs for people who cannot buy one on their own or it is unsafe for them to buy one. One such I know of is the In a Bind program, they have fantastic service if a bit slow delivery time. Remember, this program is only for transgender men and nonbinary, cosplayers will have to go elsewhere or outright buy a binder.
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i’m sorry i don’t usually comment on posts but i keep trying to tell people this over and over again and a lot of the time nobody listens (hopefully they will now because this is an excellently constructed post)
an ebay binder pushed in one of my ribs and i barely wore it for any time at all (just less than an hour for convenience in my own backyard) because i knew it was bad but it seriously injured me that quickly.
the biggest problem is most people who give these things positive reviews have NEVER HAD A SAFE, PROPER BINDER BEFORE. therefore those positive reviews cannot be trusted! they don’t know how an actual binder is supposed to feel.
this is why i urge people not to include cheap ebay binders in their giveaways, especially. it’s not a game and it doesn’t matter how “safe” you are when using them or how well you advise people- they are NOT SAFE.
don’t harm people by trying to make it seem like it’s okay just because you want a couple more followers or to give something away because it’s cheap.
i cannot signal boost this enough, i had the ebay binder as my first binder so i didn’t know that it wasn’t meant to do any of the problems that i had with it, i thought that was just how binders were.
i wasn’t able to take a full breath in it even with it on the loosest setting, and it didn’t even bind well? i wore it quite rarely because when i did i got hot flashes, dizziness because i couldn’t breathe properly and i would eventually have to take it off because i couldn’t take it.
i wore it to london mcm comic con and i nearly passed out as a result of this shitty binder plus all the walking. i had to sit down for a good twenty minutes before i could get up and i felt like shit for the rest of the day even after putting it on a looser setting. it’s seriously hurt my chest too and has i suspect damaged some of the tissue there. absolutely don’t buy these brands they do more harm than good.
Yo, guys this is really important.
I have two of these, and while I’ve never had these problems (and I wear mine all day long), I have a really small chest.
Please be safe and get something like the Underworks or the Ancient Fish King binders. They’re more expensive, but unless you have breasts smaller than an A cup like me, you’re basically screwed with the ones shown in this post.
SIGNAL BOOST
My boyfriend used Underworks like no tomorrow. They are honestly the best. Pricey, but the best.
I’m just gonna leave this here in case anyone needs it
can I add a few things? 1) ancient fish king is not safe and you should’t get them. 2) these are asian companies. there, lesbian and tomboy mean people who wear binders, not what they mean here in the west. but everything else is spot on. GC2b is also awesome.
This is a *really good* article that both handles anatomy concerns and presumes zero background makeup knowledge. Well done.
It’s amazing that the cover photo is showing both older women and people of color, something that the media consistently ignores regarding the trans community.
in about a week this new app called chariot for women is coming out it’s basically uber except all the drivers are women, and it’s only for women (or males 13 and under)
part of the profits goes to women’s charities and they’re trans women friendly!! even if you don’t yet present as a woman if u identify as a woman they will give you a ride no problemo
so yes this sounds really great spread the word friends