friend group who takes long drives together and takes pictures of each other when they’re not looking and goes on random picnics and visits museum together fuck i want it so bad where y’all at
It’s kind of tricky when you’re a over-thinker and you are aware of it. At this point I’m so unsure about the conclusions I come up with. I mean, is it true? Or did I make it up because I have been overthinking too much? Am I right or has my overthinking fooled me?
I just realized I hit the next level; I’m overthinking about overthinking
^^^
And trying to understand your anxiety like “is this just paranoia by anxiety disorder or is there actually reason for concern?”
When I see a blog ran by a person that seems really cool. Follow the blog. Comment on a few posts trying to be encouraging. Reblogging every now and then, trying to strike up a conversation, but it doesn’t pan out. The first or second time it’s easy to brush off. But when it consistently happens time after time it makes it harder to even want to try.
This is why I try to respond to every ask I get (and I don’t get many). I try to respond to every reblog that seems like the person is trying to make conversation. I try to respond to every reply that seems like the person is trying to reach out, make contact, conversation. It may not happen every time – sometimes I’m just not chatty or have no spoons – but I try really really hard to reciprocate conversation.
Being brushed off doesn’t feel nice and I’ll be damned if I make a person feel that way.
I you are a person that has been wanting to make conversation with me, please don’t ever feel afraid to do so. I won’t ever purposely ignore a person that wants to talk to me. I don’t know you want to talk to me until you do it.
It always brightens my day when you comment on my stuff or send me asks 🙂
I love getting asks and talking to people…
But I’m horrible at conversations
I can be too sometimes. Coming up with topics for small talk is hard man!
Disheveled Mess 